I've got the lunatic on ignore, but I am interested in how many words he's typed vs. everyone else. I think woot did this last time and it was incredibly interesting--and another point of laughter where we stood around and looked in awe at how much Fatty McFatty needed psychotherapy.
That is absolutely crazy. Like straightjacket crazy.
So not just narcissistic, but possible schzoid? I've been rather amazed at this. I've spent most of my career being in the minority, and some of my childhood, refusing to confirm to 1-2 groups. I'm the same politically too. That self-assurance and confidence I've built has been misconstrued by many over time. But here's the thing.
A narcissist, let alone a schzoid, fails to understand why others are judging them. But I actually do understand why. I think way too far outside the box for most people, and more importantly, have refused to conform. Even if in-person conversations are far better, even then, it has always come up from time-to-time in many things I do. But that's the thing, it's been my strength ... with others, my career, a lot things I do and continue to do. Which is why people who work with me, and know me well, say I should never change.
Especially given the fact that I don't insult people. I don't go out of my way to hate anybody or think there is anything wrong with anyone else. It's why a lot of people trust and confide in me. I've always refused to just sit there a mob hate on people. I refuse to make others the brunt of my jokes. I refuse to judge.
And as my wife regularly points out, it gives other people little excuse to find anything wrong with how I treat others. So they focus on the detail, the general, "he's got issues," because I'm like few others. As even UCFRogerz pointed out long ago, the "Core Dump." I don't deny any of that. But none of you can also say I've gone out of my way to insult anyone, judge anyone or otherwise stir up any hatred, and very limitedly, with great calculation, only taken some of you on a tour of your own follies (especially starting with the "Crass" thread).
Which is why I do very well writing product documentation, or tackling a difficult customer with full accounting, teaching others how to do things, especially new technologies that are underdocumented, etc... I'm pretty much that rock solid guy, ignoring what isn't important, working the problem, and being that someone people can not only confide in, but answer the questions they might think would make them look stupid in front of others. That's who I am.
So continue to make fun of me, even my wife, accuse me of being a threat to the board, society, that I'm going to go postal. But that's the thing ... I'm not violent. Never have been. Which explains the confidence. If any of you think you're going to get me to change, you're not. Deal with it ... or continue to do what you do, and remember how you act towards me is on you.
One important aspect of intelligence (and perhaps the most) is being able to make a point simply and in a concise manner. I don't need a reason for every answer, just say yes or no, I don't care about the rest, especially if it wasn't asked for!
Everyone is free to put me on ignore, or just skip my posts. The fact that some people not only continue to respond, but even troll, taunt, etc... in other threads, even ones where I haven't posted, along with starting several other threads (while I keep it on 1), is interesting.
But, alas, I'll be blamed for everything that happens, even if I don't respond, and just ignore. That's why I've limited nearly all of my posts on the matter to that 1 thread. But I'm sure this won't be the last thread many of you start to talk about me. But nobody points that out. I'm just the lightning rod that causes it all. I cannot even have a conversation or thread with people sometimes, with good interaction, without this BS starting.
But I'm used to it. I've always been that excuse to use. And it's fine. But that still doesn't excuse how many of you treat not only me, but others. As my wife points out, she still cannot believe how much I will help people when their down, even after they've tried to kick me on the ground. It's just who I am. Which means I'm the last person any of you should be afraid of.
As the only psychologist I ever saw in my life, back when I was a late teen, said, I'm the last guy anyone needs to worry about, I'll always help people, no matter how they treat me. I'm a stupid idealist, who does have the annoying quirk of liking to talk a lot, quite admittedly.