Yeah, I'm aware of some history, especially when the mod that demonized me started dragging up mine. I merely stated he has some too in response.
I raised the flag, and after a pair of mods didn't address it, I made a post that the last few posts -- largely that one (the
'straw that broke the camel's back'), plus the ones questioning use even hiring Heupel (well beyond the
'fire Heupel' -- like totally ignorant of Heupel's costly buy-out clause) made me question, as a donor, if I wanted to be associated with the group any further.
I listed those 2 things in the very first comment -- with the explicit,
"this isn't about difference of opinion any more, we can agree to disagree on other things" -- but then the
"Oh, I'm taking my ball and leaving" BS started from people who didn't like me, including that mod talking about me. What finally led to the muting was him demonizing my saying someone else was
"throwing trash" and
"not realizing they're trashing," got turned into
"insinuating the people here are trash," and grandstanding that basically turned everyone against me.
And once someone else defended me, and why the [subset of] mods seriously needed to look at it, let alone stop making it about me ... that was that, it got nuked, with me too.
I personally loved the further demonization of me, and utterly ignoring that post was just the
'final straw' on why I posted. Again, at least Jhon (I try to be positive where possible) seemingly read my IM at some point, and finally posted and closed commenting on that post (as he's a moderator). I know I
'get on people's nerves,' but when I waive my hands about something serious, and it goes ignored ... well ... I have to question things. I mean, if the mods have enough time to argue with and demonize me, they have enough time -- and not 12 hours later -- to address what got me
'going' in the first place.
Kinda told me everything about the group, and why a donor like me probably shouldn't be a member. Some people are always going to make some things about me, and then claim I did. No, sometimes I just get frustrated when there is a serious issue.