Yep, never got to meet them. But had they not died, she would have never moved down here and I wouldn't have met her.Originally posted by YouSeeEffer:
Your wife's parents were both dead?
Were, as in, currently alive.Originally posted by Game_Day_Sports:
Yep, never got to meet them. But had they not died, she would have never moved down here and I wouldn't have met her.Originally posted by YouSeeEffer:
Your wife's parents were both dead?
No, were as in the wedding happened in the past and they had died by the time we met. Had I said they are dead, it would not have reflected that they were no longer living at the time of the wedding.Originally posted by UCFRogerz:
Were, as in, currently alive.Originally posted by Game_Day_Sports:
Yep, never got to meet them. But had they not died, she would have never moved down here and I wouldn't have met her.Originally posted by YouSeeEffer:
Your wife's parents were both dead?
Lucky there is a guy on this board that can help people out with that.Originally posted by MACHater02:
Half of you all will get divorced and then feel differently.
Originally posted by CommuterBob:
We ended up spending about $10K. ...My dad was dying of cancer at the time and we had to put everything together in six weeks (we moved the ceremony up six months because we wanted my dad there - and that ended up being the right choice) and we had to pay for some things we initially were not going to have to, like photography, because of that.
I wouldn't spend much more than we did, if I had to do it all over again.
Since her parents were dead, why did you move the wedding because of the pregnancy? Nobody was going to shoot you.Originally posted by Game_Day_Sports:
There is a point when the spending is just a dick measuring contest, but I doubt anybody on this board had one of those. We didn't spend alot because we moved up the wedding by 9 months because of something else that was coming in less than 9 months. My wife's parents were both dead, her cousins were here and came to the wedding and I have a very small family. It worked out and we went out with friends for a big dinner / booze fest after we got back.
My feeling is if you are happy with the purchase and you smile while you are signing those checks then screw it, have fun. You can't always apply investment banker mentality on memories.
I wasn't going to, but about 3-4 months into the pregnancy she decided she wanted to. Whatever made her happy was all I cared about. I was willing to wait to give her the big wedding or do it sooner if she wanted. We've been married for 13 years now so it wasn't like I got escorted down the aisle by a shotgun anyway.Originally posted by UCF11and1:
Since her parents were dead, why did you move the wedding because of the pregnancy? Nobody was going to shoot you.Originally posted by Game_Day_Sports:
There is a point when the spending is just a dick measuring contest, but I doubt anybody on this board had one of those. We didn't spend alot because we moved up the wedding by 9 months because of something else that was coming in less than 9 months. My wife's parents were both dead, her cousins were here and came to the wedding and I have a very small family. It worked out and we went out with friends for a big dinner / booze fest after we got back.
My feeling is if you are happy with the purchase and you smile while you are signing those checks then screw it, have fun. You can't always apply investment banker mentality on memories.
Not sure how you didn't pick up on the fact that most people AREN'T spending $30-60K on weddings even if they cost that much. People getting married with weddings that much are typically getting multiple avenues of help in paying for the wedding. That cost is pretty light if you factor it split at least 2 ways with parents and then you having to throw in a few extra thousand for perks.Originally posted by (Art_Vandelay):
I don't understand how anyone can spend $30-60K for a night of fun and not regret it. I guess I'll never know true love.
meanwhile in the real world, 1/2 of the people are doing it wrong...Originally posted by UCFKnight85:
Not sure how you didn't pick up on the fact that most people AREN'T spending $30-60K on weddings even if they cost that much. People getting married with weddings that much are typically getting multiple avenues of help in paying for the wedding. That cost is pretty light if you factor it split at least 2 ways with parents and then you having to throw in a few extra thousand for perks.Originally posted by (Art_Vandelay):
I don't understand how anyone can spend $30-60K for a night of fun and not regret it. I guess I'll never know true love.
For my wedding we're receiving money from 5 different family groups + we are spending a little ourselves for special things we really want. In my situation, pretty much no one is contributing more than $8-10K.
And lulz at you phrasing this as if we're talking about an average night of beers with the boys. It's a wedding- if you're doing it right, it should only happen once in your life.
which should tell you that at least half of the world is fvcked up. LOL at gay people wanting in on some of that action.Originally posted by Dmarino110:
meanwhile in the real world, 1/2 of the people are doing it wrong...Originally posted by UCFKnight85:
Not sure how you didn't pick up on the fact that most people AREN'T spending $30-60K on weddings even if they cost that much. People getting married with weddings that much are typically getting multiple avenues of help in paying for the wedding. That cost is pretty light if you factor it split at least 2 ways with parents and then you having to throw in a few extra thousand for perks.Originally posted by (Art_Vandelay):
I don't understand how anyone can spend $30-60K for a night of fun and not regret it. I guess I'll never know true love.
For my wedding we're receiving money from 5 different family groups + we are spending a little ourselves for special things we really want. In my situation, pretty much no one is contributing more than $8-10K.
And lulz at you phrasing this as if we're talking about an average night of beers with the boys. It's a wedding- if you're doing it right, it should only happen once in your life.
So whats your total up to 85?Originally posted by UCFKnight85:Not sure how you didn't pick up on the fact that most people AREN'T spending $30-60K on weddings even if they cost that much. People getting married with weddings that much are typically getting multiple avenues of help in paying for the wedding. That cost is pretty light if you factor it split at least 2 ways with parents and then you having to throw in a few extra thousand for perks.Originally posted by (Art_Vandelay):
I don't understand how anyone can spend $30-60K for a night of fun and not regret it. I guess I'll never know true love.
For my wedding we're receiving money from 5 different family groups + we are spending a little ourselves for special things we really want. In my situation, pretty much no one is contributing more than $8-10K.
And lulz at you phrasing this as if we're talking about an average night of beers with the boys. It's a wedding- if you're doing it right, it should only happen once in your life.