Your worth is only what others will pay for it. Take real estate for example, a lot of people fall in love with their home or they fall in love with another home. If they love their place and want to sell they of course they think it's worth a lot or perhaps more than market value. Let's say you think you know your home us worth $900,00 because you put in all these custom features that mattered to you. You put it on the market and all your offers are $797,000 .
Point is its kind of tunnel vision of thinking one is worth X and but their value to others is just Y. The more schools say no to these ridiculous money demands the better it is for the sport . What needs to happen is for guys like this to throw their temper tantrum , demand more money, leave and to get paid less than what they just left. Players need to feel the downside of transferring and gain a real understanding of the market and their true value. I think learning the hard way by more and more players is very much needed and more programs need to tell these kids to go pound sand.