I would like to try before I buy. I've held a Shield and it's a little bigger than the Bodyguard which juuuuuuust fits in my back pocket nicely while the Sheild sticks out a some. Why do the S&W guys hate it so much?
As far as the Ruger LCP, I've never had a problem with it and I've put over two hundred rounds through it. I didn't find it unreliable at all. I know of two cops that carry the Kel Tec version as their personal carry weapons and they've put shitloads of rounds through that. I don't understand the hate.
Edit: I did a quick search of reliability issues on the LCP and everything I've read contradicts your statement about being unreliable.
They don't like it because it's too violent a round for such a frame. Don't forget that 9mm is actually a .356 caliber vs. a .380 caliber meaning the 380 will be more violent in a small polymer frame. I've shot it and it shoots like shit. THe Shield is a little bigger sure, but the stability and accuracy is no comparison.
The LCP? It's simply too f*cking small of a frame for that round.