Okay, according to this ...
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https://www.queerty.com/tape-reveal...ssing-heavily-sexual-affair-pic-leak-20171128
I was wrong (well, "not informed," but now am) about two details.
1) He had sex with her in 2012 and 2014, while he was still married (was he legally separated during one? or both?)
2) He sent her his first pictures in 2011, before they had sexual consent, and she claims it was unsolicited
So he is a hypocrite when it comes to family values. He is an adulterer (I'll put any separation claims to the side, if he even has one), and he may be guilty of sending unsolicited pictures in 2011, which she claims.
However, she may be on shaky ground because she did, indeed, sleep with him, and has admitted she did it for political gain. No one can sit there and claim something is 'unsolicited,' and then turn around and take advantage of it. That burns me up more than anything. You keep totally clean, and get away from that person, for a reason -- if you really didn't want to be engaged in such a way.
And that's what makes Barton's recorded statement very solid, especially since he admits he was married ...
"I would tell them that I had a three-year undercover relationship with you over the Internet that was heavily sexual and that I had met you twice while married and had sex with you on two different occasions and that I exchanged inappropriate photographs and videos with you that I wouldn’t like to be seen made public, that you still apparently had all of those and were in position to use them in a way that would negatively affect my career. That’s the truth."
He wasn't 'threatening' her. He was telling her what was going to happen.
In fact, he prefaced those very legally sound statements with this ...
“I want your word that this ends,” Barton says. “I am ready if I have to, I don’t want to, but I should take all this crap to the Capitol Hill Police and have them launch an investigation.”
I'm tired of this being called 'threatening' her.
No, he's advising you of what he must do if you do not comply with his wishes. It's one thing if you want to claim he had a sexual relationship and committed adultry, even looks like a hypocrite, and sent you pictures before you were sexually active with him. But you also chose to sleep with him, for your own reasons, and you think you have every right to share his pictures.
Which is what gets to me. We have laws that prevent people -- i.e., guys -- from sharing girlfriend's pictures, and hold them liable if they should break up, via the 'revenge porn' laws, even if they don't post them themselves. So why does this woman get special treatment? The existence of something, especially when shared with others, can be used for extortion ... even if money is not involved.
No, she doesn't get special treatment because she's a woman. In fact, Barton tried to tell her that ... but apparently it's a 'threat'? Sorry, he's an adulterer at best, and possibly a pre-emptive, sexting hypocrite as well (although that's more debatable, given their relationship).
But I do now understand why the Republican party wants him to not run again. He is at least a hypocrite in some ways.
Just tired of the media making it about 'his photo,' when it's really about those details I mentioned ... both his, and hers.