I agree with you. I would simply add the point that 'decency' goes both ways. The pregnant woman deserves our concern and respect too. It's a fine line between 'respecting life' and forcing an unwanted pregnancy on a young woman. For all the talk of 'it takes two to tango,' the woman choosing abortion is almost always facing this emotional decision alone. Too often we've seen examples of blowhard men publicly condemning abortion only to be caught in their private lives encouraging mistresses to have one.
A tad OT but relevant to how we treat pregnant women is a story I recently linked somewhere on the board about a 12-year old girl who was raped and had the baby. Nine years later, the rapist (who served time in prison for the offense) successfully sued for joint custody and had his name added to the birth certificate. Wanna bet whether the judge was male or female?