The vast majority were not thrown out due to no standing, that isnt accurate. They were thrown out because they provided basically no evidence they should be pursued. The Lawsuit the state of Texas tried to bring was thrown out with no standing, and maybe a few more, but there were over 40 legal challenges, and the vast majority were thrown out due to lack of any type of evidence, not because of having no standing.
But keep in mind, we have Trump on video trying to get the GA SOS to rig the election. Nobody could have listened to that call and not understood that is what Trump was trying to do. He asked him to find a specific # of votes. Not to make sure all the votes were accurate or this or that, he specifically wanted a certain number of votes to make him the winner. We also have Bill Barr saying they found no evidence of widespread voter fraud, and the Trump's own homeland security official saying it was the most secure election US history. So many of Trump's own people are saying it wasnt stolen. The only reason people think it was stolen is because Trump said it was. There is absolutely no actual information that indicates that is the case. ANd also remember, Trump said before the election if he lost he was going to claim it was stolen, so he was essentially declaring it stolen before it even took place.
TO believe this election was stolen, we essentially have to believe there was a mass conspiracy between many states, all which were either swing states or historically red states, that decide they wanted Trump out. Do we honestly believe that is the case? Do we honestly believe the government of GA, where most of the top officials were outspoken Trump supporters, were secretly allowing the state to be stolen from him? AZ? IT is a pretty big leap to think all of these states that are either ran by the GOP, or at least have significant GOP power, were trying to steal the election from him.
There are legal remedies available. There are lawsuits of some manner in most every election, and some are certainly successful. And Trump was allowed to pursue this legally, his team just couldnt come up with anything of significance to make his claims appear remotely believable.
ANd I agree this country is in a scary place. I disagree the reason. Trump is the one who has eroded confidence in our election. The system itself worked fine, but Trump just cant accept losing. Whether we will ever have confidence in our elections again I have no clue, but as long as we have people who believe in things like Qanon, then I am going to guess we are a long way from getting back to reality. I hope things calm down post Trump and we can get back to arguing about normal shit like tax rates and the boring political stuff. IF we cant, then I honestly think we might be in the twilight years of this country.